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Opposites attract

In my column about creating characters I spoke of the complimentary effect we have on each other, so that some of our features are strengthened to make us more distinct from the person we are with.

Thatīs why a lot of movies and TV shows use the "odd couple" idea. Throw together two people who are different in some way, and the story will be interesting, and it will practically write itself.

If you think that I sound a bit negative towards this, itīs not entirely wrong. But the thing I am opposed to is the carelessness that sometimes comes with it, as can be seen in countless bad sitcoms. The problem isnīt with the odd couple idea, but with the execution of the idea. (More advice on how to make sure that you execute an idea well can be found here.)

Itīs also a mistake to think that there is only one possible odd couple. There are thousands of combinations! And you should go out of your way to find new ones to write about. But until then, hereīs a short list of common odd couples:

Arrogant - modest
Artistic - down to earth
Bigot - open-minded
By the book - accomodating
Colourful - pale
Confused - clear
Cowardly - brave
Cynical - naïve
Dark - light
Democratic - dictatorial
Educated - uneducated
Egoistic - altruistic
Emotional - cold
Empathic - uncaring
Enthusiastic - negative
Ethical - taking shortcuts
Experienced - newbie
Free-spirited - moral
Funny - straight
Genius - average
Generous - stingy
Gossippy - secretive
Grown up - child(ish)
Heavy - light
Hippie - yuppie
Homosexual - heterosexual
Homosexual - homophobic
Honest - lying
Human - animal
Intelligent - stupid
Interested - blasé
Irresolute - determinated
Intuitive - planned
Kind - savage
Lazy - energetic
Left - right
Loner - social
Macho - softie
Man - woman
Married - spinster/bachelor
Mysterious - open
Nice - raw
Old-fashioned - innovative
Oversexual - asexual
Pedantic - sloppy
Playboy - married
Poor - rich
Profound - superficial
Prudish - natural
Quick - slow
Quiet - loud
Racist - anti-racist
Racist - minority
Rebellious - trying to fit in
Religious - secular
Scared - safe
Scarred - daring
Self-conscious - proud
Shy - pushy
Sick - healthy
Skillful - clumsy
Snobbish - shabby
Small - big
Stressed - cool
Strong - weak
Subtle - coarse
Suck-up - critical
Talker - listener
Theoretical - practical
Thin - obese
Timid - violent
Troublesome - well-behaved
Ugly - beautiful
Vagabond - home-loving
Vain - unaware
Vegetarian - butcher
Willing - protesting
Young - old

When you read these combinations, you will most likely be more drawn to one part in each couple. But when you write about them, you should endeavour to find the very best arguments for the opposite side. Keep in mind, though, that every feature can be seen both as a positive and a negative. Someone you see as a vain can be seen as someone taking care of him/herself, being self-conscious, or trying to fit in, and each of these conclusions have merit. (You can read how to do that effectively here.)

Good luck!

By Lennart Guldbrandsson